A question that I was never asked, and now, I don’t know the answer.
Can I introduce myself? That’s a question that I asked myself today. And the answer is- … let’s find it together.
If right now someone comes to me and asks me, “Tell me something about yourself.” Will I be able to answer him? Or, will I go blank? If I’m being honest, I feel that I will go all blank.
Another question that followed this first question is “Why today?” Of all these years on this planet Earth, today I want to know myself. And let me tell you one more thing, this question, “Will I be able to introduce myself?” was not a product of any self-improvement process. I want to know myself because I need to introduce myself.
If you say, “It’s not that big of a deal. Just in crisp mention about your education and work experience so far.” Yes, you are right. It’s not a big deal. I can do that. But I guess it’s not about stating the facts, it’s the resistance that my brain is showing to it.
What my brain is scared of? Is it afraid to be judged? Or is it just resisting the unknown? If you allow me to be kind to my brain then it is at no fault. I just got anxious about being exposed to something new. The question “So tell me something about yourself” is alien to my brain.
My brain has never been put in a spot like this. It is the first time that a situation has arisen where I have to introduce myself. On top of that, I have to introduce myself well. My introduction has to be authentic and catchy so that the other party choose to engage with me in further conversation.
Recently, an opportunity has come my way. And, to grab that I am required to reach out to an organisation. The catch is that they have no idea about me- what I do? why am I reaching out? etc. So basically, I am required to reach out to individuals, to be specific, to strangers.
For a person like me who never vocalized about herself even in a group of acquaintances, now suddenly has to initiate conversations with unknown people who even didn’t ask for it. It’s crazy! It doesn’t matter how much more my brain may resist, now we need to jump directly into it.
Project “Who am I?”
First, let’s list a few questions that need to be answered. Then, hopefully after answering all, at the end, I’ll have a terrific answer to shoot!
- What is my name?
- What do I do?
- Do I have a passion or hobby to work around?
I think these 3 questions are basic. And rest, depending on the gathering or situation one or two questions can be played around. For example:
- Where was I born and brought up?
- Am I a party person or a homebody?
- What is my go-to life philosophy?
Let’s answer the basics first:
My name is Manka. I am a writer. My graduation instilled in me the skill to research and write. Later, my Masters degree made me curious about human behaviour and perceptions. All this together made me take a career turn towards the profession of writing.
That seems good to me, what about you? The basics have been answered. Now it’s time to add spice.
Let’s add spice!
I was born and brought up in a conservative family set-up. I identify myself as a homebody. However, there is a little party animal in me, waiting to see the light of the day.
Last but not the least, what is my go-to life philosophy? On this topic, I can go on and on. But if I need to give a one-line answer, it is: Live and let live. To elaborate, respect boundaries whether it be yours or others.
Okay, now without further getting carried away, I believe we have got an answer. My brain now knows better!
I know these were the questions that have straight answers. But still I was hesitant. It took me an article to get to know me. Isn’t this what we do all the time? The answers are right in front, but still, our brain chooses to not see them.
Now, why don’t you tell me something about yourself? Let’s get to know each other in the comments.
